Crushes, infatuation and admiration.

Do you remember getting those small little uppers when seeing your crush back in high school? When you had to be good at something then so that you'll get noticed by the one you admire? I really can't say this for myself because I went to an exclusive school for boys; but anyway, you do get what I mean, right? When you desire for the attention of another person, you tend to improve yourself to make a good impression. You'll always look clean so that you'll be pleasant to look at. You'll always try to be smart so that they'll know you'll have a bright future ahead of you. You'll try to do the right things hoping that the one you admire will notice you and will be impressed.

Although all these may just be due to infatuation, don't you think that it’s better to stay this way? You get your high just by seeing your eye-candy and at the same you get the chance to improve yourself.

Usually, when a couple becomes a couple, the next step in their relationship is to adjust themselves to accept their partner's negative aspects. They will begin to accept each other the way they really are. Although this really depends on one's character, there will be a little less effort once you're there.

For most couples I know, they were at their best before they became couples.

What a lonely world I live in.